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This Book Won't Make You Happy

Eight Keys to Finding True Contentment

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"Thought-provoking, insightful, full of practical tidbits, and a fun read." —Dr. Leah Katz, psychologist and author of Gutsy: Mindfulness Practices for Everyday Bravery

When people find out she is a therapist, Niro Feliciano knows she isn't going anywhere anytime soon. At soccer games, at cocktail parties, in waiting rooms, people corner her and ask: Why am I so stressed? Is the way I feel normal? Why can't I just be happy?

The truth is happiness is fleeting, and we are stressing ourselves out trying to achieve it. In This Book Won't Make You Happy, national media commentator and Psychology Today columnist Feliciano offers a path to something much more achievable and abundantly more satisfying: contentment.

By incorporating eight simple postures rooted in cognitive behavioral science and mindfulness practices into our daily routines, we can move away from anxiety and toward balance and calm. Acceptance, gratitude, connection, a present-focused perspective, intentionality and priority, self-compassion, resilience, and faith: through these practices we will overcome obstacles that hold us back from living full, meaningful, contented lives.

Anxiety, stress, and grief aren't going away anytime soon, and this book won't make you happy. But with wit and empathy, Feliciano leads you right past happy to calm. No matter how "happy" your life is—or isn't—you can reach a deeper, truer, and longer-lasting place of contentment.

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    • Publisher's Weekly

      February 21, 2022
      “Life does not have to be extraordinary to bring peace, purpose, and fulfillment,” suggests Feliciano, a psychotherapist and Psychology Today columnist, in her enlightening debut. Where happiness is “fleeting” and mercurial, contentment is stable and durable, according to the author: “If happiness is defined by having everything you want, contentment is wanting everything you have.” She draws on cognitive behavioral psychology to identify the “eight keys to contentment”: acceptance, self-compassion, gratitude, connection, present focus, priority/intention, resilience, and faith. The author recommends mastering one practice at a time and offers examples of changes she has made in her own life, such as getting more sleep and reducing screen time. Feliciano also explores why happiness is more elusive than contentment, spotlighting the relentless pressure of maintaining appearances and the persistent pang of the fear of missing out. Feliciano strikes an often humorous tone (“if Crazy Town had a mayor, I would be unanimously elected”), and though she acknowledges her Christian faith, she presents her advice in a way that will appeal to non-Christians as well. This witty and insightful guide elevates keeping it real to a new level.

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